Overcoming Insecurity

Sun, Aug 19, 2007 admin

Well, everybody knows how obsessive women are about their bodies. They can have the most perfect body ever, but still they will feel insecure as to whether their man will like their body or not.

They don’t know that men really do not care if their lady has stretch marks on her tummy or if she has freckles on her chest. Men just love to have sex and explore every nook and corner of a woman’s body, and are looking to give and receive pleasure.

Making your woman self-conscious

There are some men out there in the world who make women conscious about themselves and insult them saying that they are not good looking or they are not attractive, or their breasts are not good enough for them. Now, these are all the things that can make a woman insecure about her looks and her body.

Body imageSo, for men, who insult their ladies, STOP DOING IT GUYS, this will just make your woman feel bad and your relationship with her will be over in an instant. If you don’t want to have a relationship with her, just simply tell her this to her face rather than insulting her. Insulting her will eventually result in a big breakup that will be a constant source of hurt for her for a very long time and she will lose her confidence as well.

If your woman is too obsessive about her body, then try not to comment on any part of her body or anything as she won’t be able to be intimate with you again and will always feel insecure before having sex with you.

Make her feel good about herself

Mostly women are particular about their asses. If your girl is insecure about how her ass looks, then try to comfort her or give her a love pat sometimes, tell her that hers is the best that you have ever seen and you will see a difference in her mood.

To make her feel even better, tell her to lay on her stomach and start massaging her back with some fragrant oil and then slowly approach her buttocks. Massage them slowly and give attention to both the globes. While massaging her buttocks, try to tickle her clit and then insert your fingers in her vagina. She might be taken by surprise, but tell her to calm down and you will just make her feel good and excited. Try to reassure her from time to time that you love her body, especially her two beautiful globes.

If your lady is suffering from cellulite (it is something that will make her body look like cottage cheese). Don’t let her feel that you are feeling bad about this. If you want to have sex with her like that, you can, it is not contagious or anything, and it will also boost her confidence level as well. Act like you can’t feel or see anything, but don’t pretend like a goof, as she will eventually guess that you are just faking and are not feeling comfortable with her body.

Respect her wishes

If she prefers to have sex with you in dark, just respect her wishes, but tell her that you want to see her beautiful body and want to watch her while she is moaning with pleasure. Tell her that her body is very beautiful and that you love to see her body over and over again.

It is really very important to communicate with her and if she is feeling bad about something then reassure her that you love her and are crazy about her body. Listen to her when she speaks to you and don’t ignore her at all.

Try to make your girlfriend as comfortable with you as possible. Because if both of you are comfortable with each other, then you will be able to enjoy sex a lot better. Make her feel that you are in a relationship with her because of her. If you will make her feel comfortable with you, then consider yourself a winner and she will be madly in love with you.

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