Orgasm help

Sun, Aug 05, 2007 admin

Women are popular for not achieving orgasm and men have to do various things to make them wild and achieve an orgasm.

OrgasmNowadays some women claim that their men are unable to achieve orgasm. So, I am here to help all the ladies out there. The first thing that you have to find out is that that how much porn is he watching on a daily basis. Well, men can see porn 24/7, and now ipods have made it easier to watch porn or anything else.

How often does he masturbate?

You also have to find out even by asking him as to how many times he masturbates in one day. If he is watching a lot of porn and is masturbating a lot, then this is the main reason for him not being able to achieve orgasm, as he is spending all his energy on finding, downloading, and watching porn movies and then of course masturbating. Men usually are diverted to other sources to turn them on when their women are unable to turn them on and make them feel hot as they used to.

Watch some of his porn movies and see as to what is turning him on. It might be some kind of a fetish or a kink that you never knew before.

Try experimenting

What you should do is go out and buy some sex toys, like a rectal thermometer if he is watching too much anal sex videos and a jar of Vaseline to take him by surprise. Don’t tell him anything and you don’t need his permission as men love sex in any way.

One fine night when he comes home from work, you should be wearing sexy lingerie, a night gown or a sexy nurse outfit. When he comes into the room, just order him to disrobe.

Now this is all foreplay and men love it as much as women do. Use the rectal thermometer on him, he will squirm or whine a bit, but let him know that you are in total control right now and if he squirms too much, then give him a little love spank to spice up things more.

Now, place one vibrator on his ass, and one on your clit. He will literally go crazy. Try it out and this will solve your problem to quite an extent.

Depression

But, if he is not watching porn and is too quiet, then ask him as to why he is so depressed. There might be some problem that he is not sharing with you.

Ask yourself before asking him any questions as to whether you are nagging him about everything or not. If you are, then this might be bugging him. Stop doing it as it might hurt your relationship. Give him his due space and don’t try to rule his life.

Physical or psychological problems

Above all, he might not be feeling well at all. Ask him if he had his regular checkup and if not then tell him to consult with his doctor. You should accompany him to the visit and discuss everything with the doctor in order to know that he is feeling alright physically and mentally.

If he tells you that he is not going to go for a checkup, then simply tell him that if he is not going to make an appointment then you will leave him and there is no other way in between. Be a bit strict in your tone and he might comply, as it is in his own benefit.

If he is an alcoholic, then you should talk him into checking into a rehab facility. It must be a difficult decision for him to make, but you should encourage him to do it and support him, as your support will lead him out of this difficult situation. He will love you even more and your relationship will be as strong as ever.

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